The Band

Simply put, as long as the band has done enough jewish weddings before, you have nothing to worry about. Just tell them to do the usual unless you have a particular fetish for klezmer, moshav, or chassidic tunes.

It helps to have a friend designated to be a go-between with the band. This way you can signal him to wrap up the dancing, keep it going longer, or change a song that juse makes you want to vomit.

If you have any musical special requests, send them to the band in writing at least two weeks earlier, and confirm everything special within 48 hours of the wedding. They do tons of weddings, and you don't want them to forget that its uncle harrys 78th birthday!